Yep, I would have voted for Rudy...divorces, pro-choice and all. I am not in favor of repealing Roe, though I think there needs to be more oversight restricting it to the first trimester. Look at that horrible Philadelphia abortionist, for example. The sadness of abortion has to be weighed against the safety of young women who will go to great lengths, including harming themselves, back alley abortions, etc. I don't think we want to go back to those days, though I think abortion rates have gotten out of control. It should be a last resort only.
There is no perfect political candidate. No candidate will fit all my criteria. We do the best we can with what we have according to our own personal consciences.
Gay "marriage," on the other hand, does not involve safety or life and death issues. Gays want a label - a label which changes the (in the Catholic view) the God-given definition of marriage. I'm sorry if not being granted that label makes them unhappy (truly), but sometimes we can't get everything we want By throwing a hissy fit.
How I reconcile my vote for a pro-choice candidate with my religion is my own business. I didn't ask you how you reconcile your pro gay-marriage views with it, did I.
On the other hand, I think Catholic religious take a vow to stick with the Vatican program. I have no respect for them putting themselves above the Pope in deciding what Catholic views to endorse, which ones to ignore, or worse, work against. Not a big fan of laity "working from within" to change the Church in accordance with their own views either. If you dislike it so much for so many reasons -- just leave. If I felt so strongly that thw Church was so " behind the times" as opposed to being the source of truth, I'd leave. (I came close to leaving in my 20's-- I looked into Lutheranism.) Transubstantiation would not be enough to I keep me in the church if I felt so disaffected.
I greatly respect my present Pastor (having moved we are in a new parish) - a very intelligent and humble man. Not so much my previous pastor - Monsignor William Lynn (perhaps you've heard of him), who has the distinctive dishonor of being the first priest sent to prison for his role in the coverup in the Philadelphia Archdiocese sex abuse scandal. There are nuns/priests I can respect, and those I do not. They are men and women-- with attributes and faults like all human beings. As an adult I'm used to making my own calls about people.
-- Edited by hope on Friday 19th of April 2013 02:05:56 PM
Haven't been following this thread. World is no madder/crazier than normal. Just let me know when we get close say a 7 on the maddness scale or if PBO does a GWB.
You are misrepresenting the nuns. Not surpising of course, but sad. Of course the Catholic Church isn't going to change its position on the religious SACRAMENT of marriage, hope. No one expects them to, anymore than people expect the Vatican to order priests to baptise Jewish infants. However, there is no religious reason to oppose people being able to enter into legal contracts that do not involve the Church. It's a political position, and something of an economic one. You don't seem to be able to distinguish the secular legal contract from the Catholic sacrament of marriage. It would literally be impossible for a priest to marry two people of the same sex--even if he performed the ceremony for some reason (say, one of the parties had managed to maintain a disguise all through pre-Cana etc), what religious Catholics believe happens during marriage -- that God inseparably joins a man and a woman-- would not happen. That's why the Church doesn't issue divorces, only annulments. They believe that if this divine event has occured, only death can end the connection. However, if for some reason the joining didn't occur (usually because the parties were not in the right frame of mind), the marriage never truly took place, and the parties are free to re-marry. This has absolutely nothing to do with legal marriage equality in a constitutional Republic. If you were able to appreciate the spiritual and religious side of being Catholic, you would understand the difference between that and the political issues. (Hint: There's a reason no Pope ever issued an infallible doctrine forbidding governments from allowing gay people to enter into the same legal contracts as straight people. Try googling the words "Holy Spirit" and maybe you'll figure it out).
When hope launched her little sneer attack on johndoe's religious convictions, I finally had enough to say something. SHe's entitled to experience Catholicism as nothing more than a proxy for her political beliefs, but the bigoted nonsense against other posters, the clergy and even their families (!) needed to be countered.
-- Edited by conyat on Thursday 18th of April 2013 08:07:31 PM
Of course Catholic voices can be heard, just as Jewish voices, atheist voices, Episopalean voices, tall voices, short voices, and every other voice imaginable. But it's not a religious position, it's a political one. I get that you can't tell the difference because to you, politics IS your religion, but it is what it is. I hope in time you come to have some appreciation for the beauty and meaning of the sacraments, so you'll appreciate that there's more to Catholicism than a political identity.
In case anyone doesn't know you well enough to know that you were slandering the sisters, as you tend to do to the genuinely religous, here is some background on the nuns on the bus:
Benedict was the boss, so he got to set the priorities. Fair enough. But for you to make the outrageous claims against these women that you have -- well, it only highlights how angry and bitter you are to those who have the connection to the sacred that you are missing.
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[q]Carry on with your fanatical attacks. They illuminate exactly what the Church is up against.[/q]
That's the big threat? The powerful force? Random people on message boards explaining the meaning of the sacraments and so forth? Defending Nuns from those who would slander them? Teaching people the Lord's Prayer, as I once did for you?
ROFL. Yes, people who respect the teachings of the Church (like me) are such a threat to those of you who are Catholics only because it makes you feel good about not wanting people not of your demographic to have the same legal rights.
Has all this energy you put into deceit even worth it, hope? Name one person who has been fooled by your blood libels into thinking that "powerful forces" are trying to destroy the Church. You've been at this almost 10 years, hope, spreading your slander, you must have a ton of skins by now. Why not show off some of the people who have fallen for your false witness?
-- Edited by conyat on Thursday 18th of April 2013 06:32:14 PM
If the Church changed its position on the sanctity of life, people would be amazed, rightly so, since it is a fundamental doctrine, based on natural law. This has been a fundamental teaching for a long long time, to put it mildly. Also, As Steyn points out in the article I posted, it is absurd to think they are about to change their position on gay marriage. In other words, were that to happen, it might be something, but not the Church it has been for 2,000 years. It would be something else-- a different religion. There is no shame for anyone in hoping, and praying, that the Church remains the Church. . These beliefs are not political, they are fundamental doctrine, no matter what you say.
Despite all your twisting of my words, and personal atracks on my character, I think most people realize this is not rocket science.
You are not Pope, Conyat, hallelujah.
Carry on with your fanatical attacks. They illuminate exactly what the Church is up against.
-- Edited by hope on Thursday 18th of April 2013 06:31:02 PM
Again, Benedict's concerns were about priorities not doctrine.
I'm not trying to "bother you" by pointing out that your attachment to the Catholic church is political rather than spiritual. It simply is what it is. The Catholic Church would cease to exist in your eyes if it limited its position on gay marriage to religious issues and dropped their opposition to gay people being able to enter into legal contracts that affect the Church not at all.
I'm actually very sorry for you. Catholicism is an amazing religion, full of beauty and mystery and it's all lost on you.
It's hilarious that you think women who have devoted their lives to being Brides of Christ lack an appreciation for the religious aspects of the church. I would point out some of your many many mis-statements and inaccuracies about Catholicism on the other board (including your insistence that voting for Guiliani in the Republican primary was not material facilitation of abortion in the Vatican's eyes), but it would bore most people.
Again I have to ask though---is there any member of the Catholic clergy you respect?
So far, there doesn't seem to be; all you reveal is a deep bitterness toward people with genuine vocations. -- Edited by conyat on Thursday 18th of April 2013 05:17:58 PM
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Funny thing about the Catholic Church: rules are made at the top (the Vatican), not by the "priests and the bishops," and certainly not by the nuns. I thought everybody knew that. Francis has agreed with Benedict's choice to chastise them. Opposite Day all you want. It's amusing.
Edit: I see I did say they were "not Catholic." To clarify, what I meant by this is that they are not following Catholic doctrine.. Of couse they can remain Catholic in name; hopefully they will reach a deeper understanding of what the Church is about. Sorry for the confusion. FYI, your jibes at my supposed lack of devotion are not bothering me in the least. So carry on if you must, but you're making yourself look silly in my opinion.
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The nuns weren't "making any rules". Nor were the priests and bishops.However, my point that if the nuns weren't Catholic, their bishop would have removed from the order (with Benedict's blessing) stands.
The only reason you think they aren't Catholic is because to you the sum total of Catholicism is agreeing with you on secular political issues. Concepts like original sin, the assumption of the Blessed Mother, the immaculate conception are meaningless to you. You can experience the Church only as a proxy for "anti-socialism" or whatever it is you consider your political views. That's what's behind your fear-mongering that the church will cease to exist if "powerful forces" have their way. You're really afraid it will stop siding with you on non-spiritual issues and will then be dead in your eyes.
Unless of course you can show me where Benedict said that the nuns weren't Catholic and had them drummed out of their order......Yeah, didn't figure you could. Is there any Catholic clergy member you respect?
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Protip: When you've been trying to unsuccessfully to spread the same smear (or is it a blood libel?) about "powerful forces" for nearly 10 years -- either you or it is getting old.
Meanwhile, the nuns on the bus did nothing outside of Church doctrine. Benedict criticized them because he felt their priorities should be different (less on helping the poor and more on wedge issues). If they were "not Catholic", their bishop would have removed them from their order. But of course to the person who is only Catholic for political reasons, things like sacraments and dogma are meaningless. Transubstantiation of the host, holy orders, intercessory prayer to the saints have no more to do with Catholicism in their eyes then the size font used in the missle.
It must be so sad to be able to experience a religion as beautiful and deep as Catholicism only as a tool to execute your earthly whims and a means to cultivate your anger and bitterness toward the genuinely devout.
Oh, I like that one cat. Denial, denial! The brits always have a way of saying things. Well, you can always find a way to put that link into a thread on cc, the topic might come up.
I understand that people have stresses. Some people have many things that they never or rarely reveal. I remember one poster (forgot who it was), that mentioned in passing that she had stage 4 cancer. First mention I'd ever seen of it. We all have stressful things in our lives, some more than others. But sometimes people surprise me....like when they are generally lucid, and then randomly lose it, at some unsuspecting poster. Or if they are usually enraged, but occasionally say something sympathetic. It's when people go out of character that it surprises me. Or people who are really sweet, but get on their hot topic and go crazy. I suppose we all do that, but I hope if I go overboard that I will realize it and apologize.
I wouldn't disagree with that but for some reason I never was really offended at it. Did ask him one time where his sense of humor disappeared to but....
Like most of us, and I'm including myself, he believes some things uncriticallly. Some of them are things that make him happy to believe in and he gets testy - ok, outraged, sometimes - when someone tells him something inconvenient. That the occasional tantrum never bothered me might mean I'm not that nice a person. I mean, it's not like they stopped me pulling his chain.
Matter of fact, I'd love to be able to share this with him. Right now. Him and his legal buddy, both:
cat, I realized the same thing and figure he deserves to be cut some slack, but taking people's heads off because they have a different opinion is for bullies, stress or no stress.
"I miss my old ones. They seem to have aged to the point they'd rather discuss the marital problems of others and obsess about their investments."
Well, I made a concerted effort to get dstark on ccpolitical, to no avail. But lately he's been so testy anyways, you never know if you're going to say the wrong thing and he'll rip your head off.
"So, rather than objecting to just portions of the sort of soaring, omnibus, rhetorical feel-good bs the UN is prone to produce when it's bureacrats teats are pulled, the Vatican is objecting to precisely the same points, for precisely the same reasons, as Iran is."
I'm sure...why would our unbiased, nuanced media (and Conyat) report so otherwise?
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So, rather than objecting to just portions of the sort of soaring, omnibus, rhetorical feel-good bs the UN is prone to produce when it's bureacrats teats are pulled, the Vatican is objecting to precisely the same points, for precisely the same reasons, as Iran is.
Don't get out enough, I guess, and am still hopelessly naive as a result.
I miss my old ones. They seem to have aged to the point they'd rather discuss the marital problems of others and obsess about their investments.
Currently, through the UN, the Vatican is working with Egypt and Iran to try to derail a declaration urging an end to violence against women and girls.
Is there any context that would make that a little less a crime against the female sex than it sounds?
It would be a lot easier just to admit that you made it up to make yourself sound important, wouldn't it?
But leave it to you to always to take the low road. I hope someday you come to appreciate the spiritual and religious side of the Church, I really do. It can be a tremendous comfort.
"Hope, would you care to elaborate on the "powerful forces" that don't want there to be a Catholic Church."
Um, no thanks, Conyat. Though I'm happy to point you to past and future Catholic Church threads over at CC, and your own contributions to the genre from years ago for such enlightenment. Enjoy!