IMO it should be repealed, but it needs to be done correctly. There is probably a lot of preparation that needs to happen first, no? Like, spousal benefits and such? Maybe even housing related things?
But Republicans in the Senate blocked repeal. I think their principled argument is, "Gays are yucky." Amusingly enough, it seems to be those Republican congressmen most anti-gay who turn out to be closeted homosexuals. Or pedophiles, sadly.
I have a son in ROTC. I don't think he cares one way or the other, but it's the military. They tell YOU what to think. You don't really get a chance to tell them. Or order your superiors to do anything.
Then you say, "thank you ma'am" or "thank you, sir"
I haven't actually heard the reasons for opposition to an appeal. I wonder what they are. Isn't the majority of military personnel in favor of a repeal? Or are they just apathetic?
Apparently now Senators Lugar, Voinovich, Snowe and Collins might vote to overturn the Republican filibuster on the defense bill with DADT, in exchange for an extended debate on a number of other issues in the bill.
It's a sad thing that DADT still exists, even though the large majority of Americans oppose it. What a great thing a DADT repeal would be.